Mama Dee's Blog

I've been married for 20 years after dating my husband for 7 years. Our marriage was not easy in the beginning but with time, deliberate effort and commitment to making our marriage work, we were able to figure out what works for us. Most of the lessons are contained in the video, so be sure to check it out. Some of the lessons I've learned are: Don't allow others to meddle in your marriage The issues you are dealing with in your marriage are not bigger than they seem. You add other people suddenly everything is World War Z (divorce). Other people will always make whatever you are going through a lot bigger than it actually is. Be Honest With Each Other No matter what topic it is, sex, house chores, etc. be honest with each other. None of you are mind readers so it is important to communicate your feelings to prevent misunderstanding. Communicate Communication is the basis of a solid relationship. Without communication you will always be at different stage...

In 2016 we decided to embark on a trip for ten to South Africa. As you can imagine, planning a trip for 10 was not an easy task considering that two of the ladies we went with had never met me. I asked good friends to visit South Africa with me. One of my friends has friends who, upon hearing about our trip wanted to join in. I never gave it a thought, I just said, okay, let's do it. Not knowing how difficult it would be to plan a trip for ten, I said yes and never looked back. It turned out to be one of the best vacations our family has ever taken. I'm so thankful to have said yes! After meticulously planning our trip for months, we finally made our way to South Africa. I will not write too much as I've documented the trip through videos and you can click on the link  and follow along the videos, they are linked together with playlist . Next I will publish the best itinerary you can take to make the best of your time in South Africa. I will make two week and three week...